Have you ever been invited to a special event, sat down at an elaborately decorated table and been mystified by the three forks, three knives, and been clueless as to which napkin (not to mention, water glass or bread plate) is yours?

Ease your worries. Which Fork Do I Use? is an information packed and easy-to-follow guide to all things about dining!

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Be creative!

“I turned a formal event into a shared cooking extravaganza. I invited guests who were fun and adventurous, asking them to arrive early and to bring aprons. I greeted them with chilled champagne and hors d’oeuvres. Each guest picked a recipe card out of a bowl. Some cards were duplicated for complicated dishes that required more than one chef. They found the spot in my kitchen where I had all the necessary ingredients for their recipe. Very soon everyone was laughing, chopping, mixing, baking, peeling and grating…”

What is a good place setting for my husband’s promotion party? Can you suggest a great menu for a dinner party or a weekend brunch?

This book contains sample place settings for a variety of occasions. Simply place Which Fork Do I Use? on your table and follow the guidelines for setting the table, serving, guest seating, and all that comes with making your event one to remember. Each place setting offers a sample menu, how to prepare the table, and dining tips.

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Both casual and formal dinners call for a welcoming toast that is made by the host. At casual dinners it may be a simple phrase meaning “enjoy your meal” (such as “bon appétit”) and is offered to all guests at the beginning of the meal. Before the dinner concludes, someone should make a toast thanking the host for the dinner party.

Avoid embarrassment! Prepare yourself for potential party predicaments and etiquette errors at casual or formal dining events.

Which Fork Do I Use? is a great resource and contains page after page of dining tips that will help improve your confidence level. Learn about host gifts, accepting invitations, graceful recoveries from awkward situations, and when to toast the host.
Fun to read “Don’t be that guest” advice underscores what you may already know (or, gasp, what you don’t).

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When unsure what to do once you sit down at the table, follow the lead of the host. Don’t dive in and start to serve yourself or, worse yet, begin to eat.

Throw a party like a pro! You have invited your peers to dinner. You want it to be nice, friendly and enjoyable, but unsure how to pull off a dinner party? Now what?

Planning is the key to a successful dinner party. This book takes you through the pre-party basics, setting the table, greeting your guests, what to do after the guests are seated, styles of serving the meal, and what to do at the end of the meal. Hosts will find the check-off list, timelines, setting up a home bar, wine pouring finesse, and beautiful serveware illustrations especially helpful.

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When planning your menu, not everything has to be over-the-top. Select one menu item to be memorable.